Use PackageReference for referencing packages, References for referencing assemblies
The fuzzy search in FindCompilerByName was getting messy, so that's replaced with FindCompilerByAssemblyName / FindCompilerByPackageName.
Also this fixes changed library packages not marking dependent compilers for recompile (#956)
Fixed test passing for the wrong reason
Rename Compiler.PackageReference to PackageReferences
Don't fast hotload if a referenced assembly has changed